The four psychological theories related to sexuality are psychoanalytic theory social exchange theory cognitive and learning theory. Cognitive theory states that forces between two or more cognitions and behavior creates discomfort such that one of the cognition will be altered so as to reduce stress and restore consistency For instance if a woman responds to her husband reactions without perceiving any external discomforts or pain there will be a balance of cognitions between her thoughts and observable behaviors hence leading her enjoying sex (Wilson, 2014.